Gettysburg’s most important lesson

By Rod Gragg

On the afternoon of July 1, 1863 – the first day of fighting at the Battle of  Gettysburg – a Northern soldier propped his rifle against a tree and took  careful aim at a tall, bearded Southern officer who was leading his troops  forward through the woods.

The Northern soldier was Sergeant Charles H. McConnell of the 24th Michigan  Infantry, whose regiment and the Iron Brigade to which it belonged had been  forced to retreat from McPherson’s Ridge on the west side of  Gettysburg.

As the blue-uniformed troops around him fell back, McConnell paused to fire  his last round at the towering officer leading the advancing Southern  troops.

“I thank God I did not kill you,” McConnell proclaimed to Lane on  the stage at Gettysburg, and the two former enemies warmly shook  hands.

His target was a 27-year-old North Carolina farmer-turned-soldier, Lieutenant  Colonel John R. Lane, who had taken command of the 26th North Carolina Infantry  after its young colonel had been shot down.

The North Carolinians had begun their assault some 45 minutes earlier with  800 troops: now only 212 were standing.

The opposing 24th Michigan had suffered almost equally grievous losses.   When Sergeant McConnell fired his last cartridge, he sent a one-ounce lead  bullet smashing into the back of Lane’s neck just as the officer turned to rally  his troops.

Miraculously, Lane survived.

In 1903, he was invited to give a speech at Gettysburg on the 40th  anniversary of the battle.  By then he was a prominent Confederate veteran  and a well-known North Carolina livestock dealer.

As the aging solider prepared to deliver his speech at Gettysburg, he was  joined on the stage by an elderly Chicago pharmaceutical executive and Union  veteran – Charles McConnell, the Michigan soldier who had shot Lane 40 years  earlier.

An unexpected encounter had brought the two together decades after the war,  and they had become close friends.

“I thank God I did not kill you,” McConnell proclaimed to Lane on the stage  at Gettysburg, and the two former enemies warmly shook hands.

Nearby, a blue-uniformed band of Northern veterans broke into a rendition of  “Dixie” as the crowd wildly cheered Lane’s and McConnell’s exceptional  reconciliation.

Of all the lessons to be remembered from the Battle of Gettysburg on its  150th anniversary, one not to be ignored is the remarkable spirit of national  reconciliation that followed the Civil War — embodied by Gettysburg veterans  such as McConnell and Lane.

Granted, there are lessons aplenty to be learned from Gettysburg: the  disasters that can follow the failure to settle issues peacefully, the horrors  and waste of warfare, the tremendous sacrifices rendered to produce the results  of that war, as well as important lessons in military strategy and tactics,  exceptional lessons in leadership and the inspiration of American valor, both  Northern and Southern, as demonstrated on Gettysburg’s fields of fire and fury  on July 1-3, 1863.

Some of those lessons can be learned from other battles and other wars, but  the reconciliation of the American nation is unique.

The stunning horror of the Civil War and the ugliness, inequities and  oppression of the Reconstruction Era that followed it, made reconciliation  exceedingly unlikely.

Historically, civil wars do not end well. Bitterness, revenge and   renewed fighting can continue for decades, even generations, producing  national chaos and cultural collapse.

Not so with our Civil War.

It was followed by a national reconciliation, which was led in no small way  by the nation’s veterans – those men in blue and gray who had actually fought  each other, including many Gettysburg principals.

President and commander-in-chief Abraham Lincoln set the example for   national reconciliation in his second inaugural address, which urged  Northerners and Southerners alike to “bind up the nation’s wounds” with “malice  toward none; with charity for all.”

Following Lincoln’s lead, Union General-in-Chief Ulysses S. Grant gave  Confederate General Robert E. Lee generous terms at Appomattox, where Lee’s  surrender triggered the end of the war.

The most influential man in the South, Lee refused to allow his army to turn  to guerilla warfare, and spent the rest of his life striving to set a personal  and public example of reconciliation.

Also influential was the model of reconciliation set by Brigadier General  Joshua Chamberlain, a Union officer who would become almost legendary for his  leadership at Gettysburg.

Given the honor of overseeing the actual surrender of Lee’s army at  Appomattox, Chamberlain issued an extraordinary order to the Northern troops  under his command. As Lee’s defeated soldiers marched forward to stack their  weapons and fold their flags, there were no cheers, no jeers, no  jubilation.

Instead, at Chamberlain’s order, the victorious Northern troops saluted their  former foes. The startled Southern soldiers responded in kind, and the war that  had claimed 620,000 lives thus ended in a mutual salute.

These key examples of reconciliation were later duplicated by countless old  soldiers in blue and gray, who joined each other on the major battlefields of  the war in anniversary commemorations that continued far into the  20th  century.

There, on former killing fields transformed into parks,  they called  each other “my friend the enemy,” treated one another with mutual respect, and   helped rebuild the nation.

Rooted in the Judeo-Christian values on which American culture, law and  government were founded, this spirit of reconciliation  did indeed “bind up  the nation’s wounds” to an extraordinary degree.

Today – 150 years after Gettysburg – that spirit of reconciliation  remains a lasting lesson for the ages and one that is uniquely American.

Civil War historian Rod Gragg is the director of the Center for  Military and Veterans Studies at Coastal Carolina University, and is the   author of  “The Illustrated Gettysburg Reader: An Eyewitness History of  the Civil War’s Greatest Battle,”  which is newly published by Regnery Publishing.

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